First and foremost identify your
goals and then detail them in writing. Focus
on key points and what it is about the goal that attracts you. List your expectations, the results that you want
to gain when you attain that goal. If you are so inclined discreetly confide in
a trusted person to get an unbiased view.
Next you must honestly explore
all the possible reasons, inhibitions and stumbling blocks that prevent you
from attaining your goal. Address and rebuke
that negative inner voice and affirm that you will take full responsibility for
your actions even when faced with variable outcomes because in the interim unimagined
and unforeseen possibilities may manifest which will also pave the way to certain
success.
To prepare for this list three
possible alternative routes that can lead you to the same destination.
Survey the requirements needed to
implement each of these alternatives then pursue the most applicable of these
options.
Keep your focus on your final goal
as you progress towards it, one step at a time.
Discretion is warranted when
dealing with unsupportive individuals. If they persist in bringing up negative arguments
counter to your aspirations, say, “I would have rather preferred your support on
this matter; however, since we have such different opinions, let us agree to
disagree.” and change the subject. Then surround yourself with supportive friends.
The End
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